CHURCH OF GOD IN MICHIGAN

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Michigan State Church of God Youth

Connie Graham
Director of
Youth Ministry

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Obedience

In my Women’s Bible Study this week we were asked to write a response to this question- “When have you ministered recently as an act of obedience to God? What were the results?”

Various reasons for involvement in ministry flashed through my mind-

  • no one else is available to do it - (easier to do it myself than search or train someone)
  • something I can do easily (no - failure factor)
  • it’s expected of me (saying no is - hard & I don’t like to feel guilty)
  • obeying God & being blessed & - blessing others (the very best)

Actually I could answer the “ministry as an act of obedience” question easily and quickly. Eleven of us from my church- Eagle Ridge Church of God, just returned from a Work Mission to Guatemala. The experience of building- a house and relationships was life changing. We shared God’s blessings with a group of wonderful Christian Guatemalans that were in need of housing, education, and daily supplies. I knew what would occur for our group- blessings far above what we could give.

Previously teaching elementary students for 27 years, I was saddened by the number of children we met who couldn’t attend school. One day I met Tita and her family, whose immediate need is for a roof replacement before the current one collapses. Tita is a beautiful 5 year old who desperately wanted to attend the Christian school at the tracks. There were no family resources for registration, supplies, the uniform, or shoes.

God immediately spoke to me. He wanted me to answer this prayer for this family. Before leaving, I saw Tita register for school, went shopping for her new shoes and back pack, and saw the most beautiful smile you could imagine on her face.

How great is the joy when we minister as an act of obedience when God has directed us! Your act of obedience right now may be very different- is He calling you to a ministry of visiting, working with children or youth, praying, or listening? His list is endless.

“And this is love: that we walk in obedience to His commands. As you have heard from the beginning, His command is that you walk in love.” II John 1:6 (NIV)


From ACTION 1st Qtr 2008:

Bankruptcy

I recently read a disturbing article where Harvard University projects that 111,000 adults younger than 25 will file for bankruptcy this year. The policy research group Demos has dubbed Generation Y “Generation Broke”. Factors that attribute to this dilemma would be easy to list.

Equally disturbing is “bankruptcy” in other areas of our lives- in our relationships, both personal and in our ministries. Besides the obvious, Webster states that bankruptcy can be lacking a quality. As Youth Workers, we understand the necessity of relationships and diligently pursue them within our ministry- youth to youth and adults with youth.

But, are we as quick to comply with building our own support networks, or “go it on our own”? The Old Testament book of Exodus supplies us with the great example of Jethro & Moses. Jethro saw Moses getting weary trying to do everything by himself and was concerned and knew he needed to speak truth into his life. “What you’re doing is not good, Moses’ father –in-law said to him. You will certainly wear out both yourself and these people who are with you, because the task is too heavy for you. You can’t do it alone. Now listen to me; I will give you some advice and God be with you.” (Ex. 18:17-19)

Even great leaders like Moses can fall victim to their own blind spots. We need to bring truth tellers into our lives and then listen to them! We need the encouragement and advice that sometimes can come only from the outside prospective.

Youth Workers, let’s pray for God to bring these “Jethros” into our lives and then that we will be willing to hear from them God’s message just for us! Let’s concentrate on building our accounts, not going broke.


From ACTION 4th Qtr 2007:

Friendship First Youth Ministry

It’s every youth worker’s prayer to see students connected to God and each other in spiritually dynamic and transforming ways. If your youth are drawn to your ministry’s friendly atmosphere, they’ll likely grow spiritually by being exposed to role models and Biblical teaching. They will also experience the joy of connection to peers who will support their spiritual journey.

The following are a few ideas to help foster friendship in your ministry that come from Gallup’s Friendship: Creating a Culture of Connectivity in Your Church.

  1. The Power of Affinity Groups - We certainly won’t hit all common interests, but getting to know your students’ likes, habits and what isn’t being offered in other community venues can be a powerful opportunity for friendships to grow.
  2. The Power of a Quick Plug- In – Few youth show up to an event who are absolute strangers- almost always someone has brought them. The challenge for leaders is to quickly move youth from “outsiders” to “insiders”. Small groups are a wonderful way to accomplish this.
  3. The Power of a Welcoming Atmosphere – It would be hard to find a church without greeters, but what about our Youth Ministries? Start with your Leadership Team. Train this group to be responsible for greeting, gathering information, making relational connections with newcomers.
  4. The Power of Seeing Young - People Well – Nothing is as powerful to a teen than an adult who legitimately enjoys him or her. You have to go beyond the surface to their core. Mention things you’ve seen that are positive. Ask them to give you something specific to pray about and then check up often. And of course, sharing food is ALWAYS a plus!

From ACTION 3rd Qtr 2007:

Summer ABC’s for Youth Ministry

School is out and our local Youth Ministries usually take on a slightly different look, but the basics don’t change:

A availability- be there for the students
B be a servant-teach youth to be involved in service for others
C coach them- don’t merely be a player
D discipline when needed
E encourage your students in life
F fun activities- creating a balance in ministry is important
G grow in your own personal relationship with God
H have a weekly plan- one on one time, write notes, make calls
I inform others regularly (Sr. Pastor, parents, students)
J jeopardize no trust that has been given to you
K know your students well- not just on the surface
L love Jesus, and love students
M model for them- be consistent
N never lose sight of priorities- God, family, youth (others)
O open your home- food doesn’t hurt either!
P pray for your kids daily
Q quench over commitment
R relational ministry- make and build friendship and trust
S share your faith with them- don’t assume they know your story
T team player- don’t go it alone!
U understand youth- keep current with your reading
V visibility- go where kids are
W walk your talk
X (e)xperience regular time off
Y you be you! Be yourself
Z zero in on hurting, struggling, or lonely students and their families


From ACTION 2nd Qtr 2007:

ENROUTE –

Webster’s Dictionary defines enroute as “on or along the way.” Hopefully every Church of God congregation in Michigan has identified students that are ”on or along the way” to leadership community-wide and in the local church.

Mentoring
Identifying such leaders is just the first step- students need YOU, as an adult in the church to be a model and mentor. God designed us to need each other for growth. Youth need someone who is on the journey just ahead of them to hold a light so they can see where they’re going. Then they are able to hold up the light for students coming behind them!

Training
In addition to local and state Youth Leadership training, there is a National training experience for “top student leaders” taking place July 3-7, 2007, in Washington D.C. “The Leadership Summit is a biennial event designed to equip and empower students to become transformational leaders: educationally, experientially, relationally, and cross-culturally. Leadership Summit is held on the campus of Gallaudet University, located in Washington, D.C., and is intentionally interracial. Leadership Summit is directed by Leadership Development of Church of God Ministries and cosponsored by the Hispanic Council, NIYC, American Indian Council, and IYC. “ (Church of God Youth Ministry Informer- Winter, 2007)

Information will soon be arriving at your churches from Anderson about this opportunity. The State Youth Ministry is investigating assistance for travel expenses for a group of delegates from Michigan. A group of 14 MI delegates attended in 2005. Here are 3 student testimonies after this life-changing experience:

  • “I must be a servant not for me, but for the Lord, my God. I have to just look around me in a different way & I’ll see all sorts of needs.”
  • “Servant hood costs something. I learned that I must give my best, not my leftovers.”
  • “I must step out of my comfort zone to be a real servant leader. I need accountability help to keep on.”

Wanted
Our State Youth Ministry Team is seeking the names of students in our churches that have received God’s call to ministry, or are seriously considering this vocation. We’d appreciate their grade in High School or college level, and area of interest (Sr. Pastor, Youth Ministry, Christian Education, Missions…). Our goal will be to assist congregations in encouraging, offering future training and information to youth in their “enroute” journey.
Please send the names and information to:
Connie Graham, 712 Stillmeadow Ln., Midland, MI 48642
or cmyersgraham@chartermi.net